My Husband Refused to Change Our Baby’s Diapers

People often romanticize parenthood, claiming it fills unseen voids and brings joy.

However, Jessica, a 28-year-old mother, finds herself overwhelmed at 2:04 a.m., standing in a puddle of formula and feeling abandoned by her husband, Cole, whose dismissive attitude toward parenting leaves her questioning their relationship.

When faced with a late-night diaper blowout, Jessica asks Cole for help, but he refuses, insisting that “diapers aren’t a man’s job.” This deepens her sense of isolation, making her realize that both she and Cole are struggling in their roles as parents.

Desperate for support, Jessica reaches out to Walter, Cole’s estranged father, hoping he can share his experiences. Their conversation reveals the impact of Walter’s absence on Cole, highlighting a cycle of neglect that could continue. Jessica believes Walter’s perspective might help Cole understand the importance of being present.

The next day, after a tense exchange, Cole begins to confront his fears about fatherhood. As he holds Rosie, he expresses a desire to change. Jessica reassures him that they can learn together, emphasizing that love is about the courage to grow for their family.