When my husband gave me a scary demand, he didn’t expect me to stand up for myself and our kids.
The lesson I taught him showed him how unfair he was being when we already had so much to be glad for. His demand ended with him begging ME for mercy!
I never thought I’d be in this spot, but here I am, at a big moment.
I was pushed to take bold steps when my spouse cornered me with one request. But that request was enough to make me act.
My husband, Silas, has always been a kind dad and a great worker. He’s taken care of our family and spends lots of time at work.
This has let me stay home and raise the five awesome daughters we already have.
But lately, his dreams of having a son “to carry on the family name” have turned into demands. And those demands have become threats! “Vera, we NEED to have a sixth kid,” he said one night after supper.
His tone was serious, almost mean.
“Silas, we already have FIVE daughters. You want me to keep having babies until we get a son?” I replied, feeling the tension rise.
“But aren’t kids a joy to you? Is it really that tough?” His words hurt.
We’ve had this fight lots of times before, but this time it felt different.
It felt like a demand. We kept arguing in circles, neither of us willing to give in. Our fight grew until he hinted he might think about DIVORCING me if I refused to have a son for him!
“Are you saying you’d leave me if I don’t give you a son?” I asked, my voice shaking.
“I didn’t say THAT,” he mumbled, looking away. But the hint was clear.
He was willing to think about divorce if I didn’t do what HE wanted. That ended our fight as we went our separate ways to get ready for bed.
That night, I lay awake, thinking about our talk.
How could he be so quick to dismiss the life we’d built together? Our daughters are great, each one special and full of life. I couldn’t picture our family any other way.
I needed to make him see what he was asking of me, of us.
And you know what? Before shutting my eyes and falling asleep, I decided on a smart way to SHOW him EXACTLY what it meant to raise five kids ALONE!
The next day, I woke up really early while everyone was still asleep. I packed a bag and drove to my late mom’s old country house.
I turned off my phone’s sound and ignored all his calls and texts.
After making myself breakfast and a hot cup of coffee, I settled in to watch my favorite show for the day: “The Mess When You Leave Your Husband Home Alone with Five Kids.” I watched everything live through the security cameras we had at home. Silas was in for a ROUGH wake-up! The minute he woke up, he started getting ready for work.
But he stopped when he heard the kids making a noise.
“Where’s your mom, and why aren’t you all dressed and ready for breakfast?” he asked our wild bunch. My girls made me proud when they ignored him and kept jumping on beds and playing.
My husband looked for me, calling my name, before he realized I wasn’t home. He started calling me, and I watched the call come through.
“What the heck, Vera,” he said, upset, before giving up on the sixth missed call.
He couldn’t leave for work because he couldn’t leave our young daughters alone. The first morning was FUNNY and a TOTAL mess! He tried to make breakfast and ended up burning the toast and spilling juice EVERYWHERE!
The kids were running around, refusing to get dressed.
He was totally swamped, and I was loving every moment! “Juni, stop running!
Willa, put your shoes on!” I could hear him yelling, his voice stressed. “Daddy, I don’t like this cereal!” Lyric whined, pushing her bowl away.
“Then WHAT do you WANT?” he asked, worn out.
“I want pancakes!” she demanded. Silas sighed, rubbing his head. “Okay, I’ll make pancakes.”
Willa, feeling left out, said, “I want eggs and cake!”
Juni, not one to be left out, demanded, “Waffles and cream, please!”
If his head was hurting before, I was SURE it was now THUMPING!
All day, the mess only grew!
He tried to help with their online school, but they kept getting distracted and running off! “Willa, focus on your math work,” he begged.
“But I don’t get it, Daddy!” she cried. He sat beside her, staring at the screen.
“Okay, let’s figure it out together.” Between helping the kids, a call from work came through.
Judging from the talk and Silas’s many apologies, he’d forgotten to say he wasn’t coming to work! When it was time for lunch, my husband couldn’t figure out what our kids liked to eat. So they ended up having a picnic of random snacks.
“Can we have peanut butter and jelly?” Juni asked.
“I’m not sure we have any,” he replied, checking the pantry. “How about just jelly?” she suggested.
I must admit, it was sad seeing Silas struggle like this, but it was really funny and worth it! The house was a MESS, with toys everywhere, and he looked like he was about to lose it!
“Why is there Play-Doh on the carpet?” he groaned.
“I don’t know, ask Lyric,” Willa replied. Hearing her name, Lyric started listing all the reasons why she wasn’t to blame! “I only play with purple and blue Play-Doh.
I wasn’t sitting on the carpet, I only ran a bit on it in one spot.
I…” My husband cut her off before she could go on, “Okay, Lyric! Enough, I got it!
Can you PLEASE just clean it up for Daddy?”
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In the evening, the girls wanted to play dress-up, and Silas HAD to join in! They made him wear a tiara and feather boa while they pretended he was a princess!
“Daddy, you look SO pretty!” Lyric giggled.
“This is silly,” he mumbled, but he smiled at their joy. My husband looked out of place and so tired. Bedtime was the LAST straw!
They REFUSED to go to bed, demanded stories, and kept sneaking out of their rooms!
MAN was I proud! “Just one more story, Daddy,” Juni begged.
“Okay, but THEN it’s REALLY time for bed,” he agreed, his patience running low. By the end of the second day, Silas was clearly about to break down!
He started sending me desperate texts, begging me to come back and help.
“My angel, please, I can’t do this alone,” he texted. He even sent a video of himself, on his knees, asking for forgiveness. “I’m sorry, my love.
Please come home.
I need you.” What made the clip even funnier was that he took it in our locked bathroom while the girls DEMANDED he come out and play! I decided it was time to go home.
When I walked in, Silas rushed to me, looking more relieved than I’d ever seen him! “I am so sorry,” he said.
“I won’t push you about having a son anymore.” He hugged me so tight I almost couldn’t breathe!
“I see now how much you do, and I promise to spend more time with the family,” he vowed. I was touched. “If you really promise to spend more time with us and help out more, we can talk about the CHANCE of a sixth kid,” I said.