I’m 27, and I’ve never been what you’d call lucky in love. Most of my dating history is a collection of short-
lived connections and polite goodbyes. So when I matched with her on a dating app a few weeks ago—and we actually clicked—it felt unreal. Conversation flowed easily. We laughed. We shared stories. For once, I didn’t feel like I was forcing anything.
After a couple of great dates, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She smiled and said yes. That was when she suggested I meet her family.
I took it as a good sign. In my mind, meeting family meant seriousness, honesty, a step forward. She mentioned—more than once—that it would really impress them if I paid for dinner. I didn’t think much of it. I assumed it would be her parents, maybe a simple, slightly awkward meal. Paying for a few extra plates felt like a small price for a good first impression.
When we arrived at the restaurant, my stomach dropped.
Her entire extended family was already there. A long table. Cousins. An aunt. An uncle. People I’d never met, all turning to look at me like I was late to my own audition. I froze, smiled politely, and told myself not to overreact.
While we waited for a table, no one spoke to me. Not a single question. No “So how did you two meet?” Nothing. I stood there feeling invisible, like a wallet with legs.